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Home –› Self Help –› Success Planning
 

Success: Putting Things Off

 

Author: Jeff Herring

You procrastinate, I procrastinate, all God's children procrastinate.

But do we ever really count the cost of procrastinating?

Putting things off

Here's a partial list of the damage wrought by putting things off:

It makes small tasks seem large or insurmountable.

It makes short tasks time consuming.

It deludes us into what I call "someday thinking." Someday I'll (fill in the blank). In the words of John Fogerty, "someday never comes."

It causes us to feel overwhelmed.

It creates an almost constant state of panic.

It's a major source of debilitating stress.

It fools us into actually believing "I'll do it later."

NO YOU WON'T!

What to do

Albert Einstein said,

"Everything should be made as simple as possible, but no simpler."

So I usually like to keep suggestions for change very simple and very usable. These next three ideas, however, are very psychologically complicated, so get ready:

Do it now!

Do the hard or unpleasant Muff first. This strategy has allowed me to get more done and have more free time than most people I know. The next time you are tempted to put something off, just procrastinate about putting it off. Say "I'll do this now, and procrastinate later." Simply "put off' procrastinating.

Now I realize that sounds so simple. I suppose I could complicate it for you, add a lot of psycho-babble, but why?

Author Bio:

Jeff Herring

Jeff is a marriage and family therapist, singles and relationship coach, mentor coach, speaker, syndicated relationship columnist and author.

Jeff has a full time private practice in Tallahassee in which he specializes in couples, teen and parent counseling. He also is a relationship coach specializing in working with couples and singles. Some of his professional activities include:

==> Internationally syndicated relationship columnist through Knight-Ridder/Tribune Media Services, with a weekly readership of over 10 million worldwide

==> Sought after speaker for organizations, associations, churches, and corporations

==>Twice weekly appearances on The Steve and Sara Show on Magic 107.1

==> Author of "Keep the Changes: 52 Tools for Successful Living" a collection of his best columns, as well as several e-books including "How to Create a Passionate and Loving Relationship.........Forever," "How to Beat the BOZOs: Dealing with difficult people without becoming one," and "Tame Your Teen: THE survival guide for parenting your teenager.

==> Founder and CEO of TheArticleGuy.com

==> Founder and CEO of SecretsofGreatRelationships.com

==> Founder and CEO of ParentingYourTeeanger.com

==> Founder and CEO of ToolsforSuccessfulLiving.com

==> President of BuildingYourIdealPractice.com

==> President of ConsciousDatingTallahassee.com

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