When it comes to attraction with woman it is or it isn't, once the attraction is gone the relationship between you and her is over. Many times a woman who is no longer attracted to a man will attempt to change him into what she thinks she would find attractive in a man. Some men thinking that there is still something left in the relationship make whatever changes the woman asks in the hope of keeping the relationship alive not realizing that it might already be dead. A woman can not control who she is attracted to even though she can know what she usually finds attractive. However, a woman can become attracted to the idea of controlling a man. Yet, if you are a man in who has suddenly finds himself in a relationship with a woman who has discovered she enjoys controlling men. It means she will continue to try and change you or move on to another more challenging man. As a man you need to realize that a woman who is trying to change you is no longer attracted to you. Changing for her is not going to case her to feel attraction for you in fact it might even cause her to feel less attraction towards you. However, what you can do is begin to take steps to make yourself more attractive by manning up and telling her to accept you the way you are or to move on since that was where she was headed anyhow. Most women are looking for and attracted to a man who is in control. When you put a woman who is losing attraction for you on the spot by giving her the reality of the situation she is either going to find herself naturally attracted to you again (which was what she wanted in the first place) or she is going to leave you (which is what would have happened had you decided to make the changes she asked for). |
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